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| Let’s Get In Position |
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| By Megan Andelloux |
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Positions, Positions, Positions… Everyone wants the “hot new” position that they can try out to make playtime more, well… playful! It’s time to get your mind thinking more creatively, which in turn will get your body ready for action. So before you pull down those covers, keep these items in the back of your mind. Why is it that any given position can work like a magic wand for some people and fall flat for others? It all comes down to our anatomy. If your lover has a curved phallus (wondrous for G-spot play), a tipped uterus (doggy-style positions create an OWW! feeling) or any other slight variation (and we all have them!), then what works for our best-friend might not work for us. So don’t fret, because it’s the differences in sex play that provides the fun with a new partner. As a general rule, for most women to climax, DIRECT clitorial stimulation is needed. Only 20% of clitoris owners climax with only something in their vagina and no other stimulation. Just like most men need to have the head of their penis stroked in some fashion to get off, the same goes for the ladies. It does not mean there is something wrong with you because you need to have your clitoris pet during sex. So keep in mind, that things like how our genitals are built, our height and our flexibility are all things that will effect how a position works for you and your lover. Mood The mood we bring to the bedroom (or kitchen, or changing room…) affects the quality of our playtime. The way we feel makes certain positions more or less intense. If you are looking for the whole “I’ve been a bad girl and need a spanking” type of evening, perhaps spooning type positions should be saved for next time, as they tend to provoke more loving, intimate moments. So figure out the mood you are in and then think about how any particular style will mesh with it. That’ll give you a little more direction for your afternoon daydreaming at the office! Energy Level Going along with mood, a person’s energy level will directly affect……to read more click HERE |
