So You Want to Buy a Sex Toy?
Here are a few questions to ask yourself and some info you should know….
•How do you plan on using the toy? Vulva, Clitoris, G-Spot, A-Spot, Perineum, Prostate or Anal? So many choices, so many choices!
•Is it going to be used internally, externally or maybe a little of both?
•Internal? Try a dildo. They come in different shapes, colors, and create a delightful feeling of fullness. Generally, the amount of fingers one enjoys can be used as a guide as to how wide your toy should be.
•External? Go with a vibrator! If the vibe is made of a hard material, it will carry more vibration. Soft toys can feel delicious on the skin and produce a softer vibration.
•Not sure? Try a vibrator that can be inserted!
•1st toys are meant as a trial run. If you are unsure as to what you want, go with something relatively cheap so you can figure out what will make your heart skip.
•What style do you like? Do you want it to have a non-phallic look, an animal theme or look like a realistic penis?
•What color makes you hot? Pick a toy you are going to grab for!
•Travel a lot? Long car rides? Spice up your trips with something small and easily mobile. If you are doing most of your fondling at home, size shouldn’t be a factor.
•Are you nervous someone will find it? Get a toy that doesn’t look like a penis! They come in all shapes and sizes. Some look like back massagers, clowns, lipsticks, pens, abstract art and even rubber duckies.
•What about noise? Is that a factor? Some toys are realllly loud, some are whisper quiet and you can’t even tell they’re on.
•If you get a silicone toy, don’t use silicone lube as a rule of thumb as it will destroy your toy! Much sadness will occur.
•If you get a jelly latex toy or even a hard plastic one, throw a condom over it-germs love to hide in little nicks, seams and material tears you can’t see! No matter how hard you clean them-germs will always be there!
•If you are going to stick something in your butt it MUST have a flange on it-a flared base helps prevent the toy from becoming “sucked in” your butt. Every year thousands of people make bad anal choices and end up in the Emergency Room due to the fact that the rectum is a black hole that loves to suck things up. While all doctors have had to do a rectal extraction before, you don’t want to be that person.
