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Comment on How Can I Satisfy My Boyfriend if I Don’t Desire Sex? by tania

tania — Sat, 14 Apr 2012 04:29:39 +0000

i did get your website by my doctor she told me to check your page cause i will learn or understand some doubts i do have with my sexual life ,i did listen and i did liked ….

Comment on 11/30: Super Sex Campus Style with Campus Activities at Holyoke Community College by Teresa Sanders

Teresa Sanders — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 21:54:21 +0000

It was awesome! She was very informative and detailed on not just how to enjoy sex but also on how to have safe sex, healthy sex and exploration is healthy as well. She’s really big on communication, which I love because so am I. I think in the day and time, it’s a lost art for most whether sex is involved or not. She was very refreshing considering “sex talk” being so taboo for a lot of people. She made everyone very comfortable with asking questions, their inner thoughts (we wrote them down or even text them to her) and also making us apart of the activities…lots of “show and tell”. She was by far a breath of fresh air. I believe some many “right out of High School” college students need to hear what she has to say and present. All of this information is critical for our community. Being aware is half the battle, acting on it (protecting yourself) is the other but some people in spite of all the education in the world, believe strongly in “ignorance is bliss” until they receive some unwanted news. I think a lot of our youth don’t realize the seriousness of an STD-SDI and or HIV-AIDS, most of these you can NEVER get rid of.
Keep doing what you’re doing lady! You’re beautiful, inside and out.

Comment on 11/30: Super Sex Campus Style with Campus Activities at Holyoke Community College by Teresa Sanders

Teresa Sanders — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 21:02:26 +0000

It was awesome! She was very informative and detailed on not just how to enjoy sev but also on how to have safe sex, healthy sex and exploration is healthy as well. She’s reallt big on communication, which I love because so am I. I think in the day and time, it’s a lost art for most whether sex is envolved or not. She was very refreshing consisdering “sex talk” being so taboo for a lot of people. She made everyone very confortable with asking questions, their inner thoughts (we wrote them down or even text them to her) and also makinf us apart of the activities…lot’s of “show and tell”. She was by far a breathe of fresh air. I believe some many “right out of High School” college students need to hear what she has to say and present. All of this information is critical for our community. Being aware is half the battle, acting on it (protecting yourself) is the other but some people in spite of all the education in the world, believe strongly in “ignorance is bliss” until they recieve some unwanted news. I think a lot of our youth don’t realize the seriousness of an STD-SDI and or HIV-AIDS, most of these you can NEVER get rid of.
Keep doing what your doing lady! Your beautiful, inside and out.
Teresa

Comment on 12/01: Orchestrating Orgasms at Wesleyan University by Voices – Wesleyan Student Blogs » Blog Archive » Against the Odds

Sun, 04 Dec 2011 21:58:10 +0000

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Comment on Does the Pill Decrease Libido? Wesleyan University Asks by Tsiyeria

Tsiyeria — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 01:49:59 +0000

I have this problem really bad, especially since I’m working in addition to getting ready to graduate, and trying to figure out personal issues. I asked my GYN, though, and his immediate response was “Oh no the pill can’t do that” and essentially told me it was all in my head. (I know I need a new doctor, I’m just not sure if getting a new doctor for one visit is worth the hassle, before I move and have to find ANOTHER new doctor.) Is there anything I can do while staying on the pill to help with this problem? Alternatively, if I quit the pill cold turkey are there potential health problems? This is causing major stress in my relationship.

Comment on Wesleyan University Asks “Anal Hurts: How Can I Enjoy It?” by Summer

Summer — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 23:13:08 +0000

Thank you SO much, my mom thought anal & oral were sins so I was never able to talk about this kind of stuff & I appreciate your site cause I can ask anything & I don’t have to feel ashamed! And I feel that the advice is 200% safe health wise & feel like you actually care so for all the women like me THANK YOU!!!!! You are like having a very educated big sister & since I had to explain sex to my 5 yr older than me sister thank you for being like a surrogate older sis! Again THANK YOU!!!

Comment on Oral Sex Safety by Megan

Megan — Sun, 11 Sep 2011 01:04:10 +0000

Hi Jo,
I’ve heard this rumor many times also. It does not matter which type, the only way that HIV or other STI’s can transmit through the microwavable saran wrap is if the microwave is ON. I don’t care how turned on you get, you’re body will never reach that temp. So, whatever type you have, works as a great barrier for oral/genital, oral/anal contact. Just don’t wrap it around a penis as a condom-it will NOT protect against pregnancy.

Comment on Wesleyan University Asks “Anal Hurts: How Can I Enjoy It?” by Megan

Megan — Sat, 10 Sep 2011 15:18:15 +0000

Hi there, thanks for writing.
It reads as though you have experienced numerous traumatic experiences. I’m so sorry to read that. From a quick assessment, I would agree, I don’t think that at this time, anal, or really any penetrative sex, would be healthy for you because you state that you haven’t really dealt with the rapes and are experiencing flashbacks and dissociation. Therefor, before you become sexual with any other person, I would highly recommend you find a therapist to start to talk about how the trauma is effecting you. You might be experiencing pain because you were a. raped b. didn’t want to engage in the behavior c. they didn’t safely engage in the sex you two were having when it was consensual d. your body has not recovered from the past hurt or e. you don’t like it.
Whichever reason it may be, I do not think that having anal sex would be healthy for you at this point. Maybe down the road, when you have processed through things AND have desire to engage in anal, maybe then would I say, try again, but at this point I strongly suggest you stay away from any penetrative sex. I want you to be healthy and happy. Please look for a therapist who is well versed in past sexual trauma. I wish you well.
Megan

Comment on Wesleyan University Asks “Anal Hurts: How Can I Enjoy It?” by Summer

Summer — Sat, 10 Sep 2011 03:37:30 +0000

I was with someone that was a virgin when we met so we & we explored the world of sex together as I hadn’t done much with anyone else. When we first tried anal we used lube but it hurt SO badly that I accidentally kicked him off & he said he didn’t want to try anal again cause it didn’t feel right to him & it did hurt me(good guy) then we got married & during his 1st 6 month cruise he asked me to try anal again & he was very excited to try & my hesitation he didn’t understand. I tried doing what you said as far as trying to insert something small first & used lube & it upset me. When my hubby came back from his deployment he ended up forcing it on me without any warning & it upset me & put me mentally in another place, once he saw my face & heard he hyperventilating he stopped & ran out (BTW consensual anal sex is illegal in the military). My parents came to my room & I was so far gone they had to have management let them in & they found me out of it where my hubby left me. That happened I believe cause I was raped & sodomized as a child & have permanent damage to my anal region that my hubby didn’t know about cause the memory had been repressed & came back when I was delivering my own baby at 6 months & every contraction brought more & more of the memory back & I didn’t want to say anything until we could sit down & talk about the memory & the details about my daughter. I have been raped analy since then & think that anal sex isn’t ever going to be possible for me. My BFF knows my history & didn’t think I should ever try this. Would you draw the same conclusion?

Comment on Oral Sex Safety by Jo

Jo — Wed, 24 Aug 2011 16:24:12 +0000

Does microwavable versus non-microwavable saran wrap make a difference? I’ve heard from many sources that microwavable saran wrap is not effective because it has pores to let steam through when microwaving food. Is this an irrelevant distinction that I’ve been repeating to people for nothing?